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Welcome to the Santa Ana community! Here you can discover and connect with people in your area who share your interests and values.
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Nawusijia
She / Her
Irvine, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Figuring out how to be an adult. I'm 35 years old, have a good career, and have many friends (although they are mostly far away!). But other than these, I feel like I'm just figuring life out.
How's your life?
I'm happy with my life.
It's primarily peaceful. I like the routine of working, gym time, and home. Work makes it exciting. When I travel, I get to go on adventures.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Workout, right now I'm going rock climbing regularly. I like watching TV shows and going out to restaurants.
What is most important to you right now?
My career. It's my passion, and I want to do my best. I also want to figure out how to better adult. How to be more financially responsible, how to eat healthier, etc.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I'm trying to watch more movies and get back to reading. I'm also learning about meditation and mindfulness.
Where are you at in your life stage?
Figuring out how to be an adult. I'm 35 years old, have a good career, and have many friends (although they are mostly far away!). But other than these, I feel like I'm just figuring life out.
How's your life?
I'm happy with my life.
It's primarily peaceful. I like the routine of working, gym time, and home. Work makes it exciting. When I travel, I get to go on adventures.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Workout, right now I'm going rock climbing regularly. I like watching TV shows and going out to restaurants.
What is most important to you right now?
My career. It's my passion, and I want to do my best. I also want to figure out how to better adult. How to be more financially responsible, how to eat healthier, etc.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I'm trying to watch more movies and get back to reading. I'm also learning about meditation and mindfulness.
SunlitNomad
Just dm you. What type of books would you like to read. I just finished Slade house by David Mitchell. Nice and super fun read
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LostInBoba
I’ve been trying to get into meditation and it’s quite difficult to calm the chatter in my mind. The app Calm has a 30 day challenge that really helps! Turning mid 30s is really kicking my butt into high gear about being better overall.
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Vivio
She / Her
Irvine, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Living the SINK life: single income no kids. :) Very happily in a LDR though it means I feel more single than coupled on a day-to-day basis. Pretty happy with my work as well; it keeps me busy and I don't hate it. I work remotely (amazing commute from the bed to the desk!) and sooommmeettimmmeesss.... I wish I had an office to go into. I miss having random conversations in the kitchen or taking walks for morning coffee or to refresh in the afternoon.
Socially I'm looking to get out there a bit more. Right now probably just looking for some casual friends to spend some time and/or try new experiences with. (If we become besties super cool! If not no pressure. I've learned everyone's path goes their own way and just enjoy the time together.)
How's your life?
Life is going okay. Work is interesting but not keeping me fully occupied so I'm looking for some more! Recently-ish (everything is only 3 months in this post-covid world! or maybe I'm just growing old...) moved down from the Bay Area to be closer to family but I unfortunately left all my friends behind. Plus I'm a homebody and an introvert so it's been hard to make friends. I swing between being lonely and wanting to be ALL THE SOCIALS and being content rolling around the couch. (Couch potatoes unite!)
What helps you keep your sanity?
Playing games and drinking boba! I play one computer game (guildwars 2) and I just turn my brain off as I mindlessly hit buttons. Sometimes I even accomplish something! Otherwise I'm fortunate to have some close friends who will listen to me blah blah blah when things are getting too much. They laugh at my misfortunes; I get emotional release: wins all around! (Don't worry! I won't blah blah on you until we're good friends! I'm an introvert until we're good friends.. then it's hard to shut me up. >:) )
Also boba. When things are good: celebrate with boba. When things are bad: cheer up by drinking boba! Boba solves all. (Welcoming all boba recommendations! I tend to prefer the simple: milk tea or fruit tea and boba.)
What is most important to you right now?
Enjoying my life! I hope to have a family in the future but children are a BIG responsibility. I'll just enjoy my freedom now while I still can! Also looking to set down more roots in OC and make some friends. It'd be great to hang out once every 2-3 weeks and do something new/interesting/fun. (Or we could.. just grab some boba, chit chat, and go for walks? I could probably swing that once a week... I have a very limited social meter that just got shorter over the pandemic!)
Oh.. and maybe becoming more healthy.... maybe... can someone please gift me some motivation? :(
Anything you recently found interesting?
Escape Games: I know they've been around forever but they're reallllyyy so fun! I'm always down for an escape game.
More a shower thought but: The nicer the house/apartment/etc. the more people tend to stay at home and thus build less connections. In contrast if your house/apartment sucks you just always want to go out and then you meet more people! Such a weird aftereffect of prosperity??
Where are you at in your life stage?
Living the SINK life: single income no kids. :) Very happily in a LDR though it means I feel more single than coupled on a day-to-day basis. Pretty happy with my work as well; it keeps me busy and I don't hate it. I work remotely (amazing commute from the bed to the desk!) and sooommmeettimmmeesss.... I wish I had an office to go into. I miss having random conversations in the kitchen or taking walks for morning coffee or to refresh in the afternoon.
Socially I'm looking to get out there a bit more. Right now probably just looking for some casual friends to spend some time and/or try new experiences with. (If we become besties super cool! If not no pressure. I've learned everyone's path goes their own way and just enjoy the time together.)
How's your life?
Life is going okay. Work is interesting but not keeping me fully occupied so I'm looking for some more! Recently-ish (everything is only 3 months in this post-covid world! or maybe I'm just growing old...) moved down from the Bay Area to be closer to family but I unfortunately left all my friends behind. Plus I'm a homebody and an introvert so it's been hard to make friends. I swing between being lonely and wanting to be ALL THE SOCIALS and being content rolling around the couch. (Couch potatoes unite!)
What helps you keep your sanity?
Playing games and drinking boba! I play one computer game (guildwars 2) and I just turn my brain off as I mindlessly hit buttons. Sometimes I even accomplish something! Otherwise I'm fortunate to have some close friends who will listen to me blah blah blah when things are getting too much. They laugh at my misfortunes; I get emotional release: wins all around! (Don't worry! I won't blah blah on you until we're good friends! I'm an introvert until we're good friends.. then it's hard to shut me up. >:) )
Also boba. When things are good: celebrate with boba. When things are bad: cheer up by drinking boba! Boba solves all. (Welcoming all boba recommendations! I tend to prefer the simple: milk tea or fruit tea and boba.)
What is most important to you right now?
Enjoying my life! I hope to have a family in the future but children are a BIG responsibility. I'll just enjoy my freedom now while I still can! Also looking to set down more roots in OC and make some friends. It'd be great to hang out once every 2-3 weeks and do something new/interesting/fun. (Or we could.. just grab some boba, chit chat, and go for walks? I could probably swing that once a week... I have a very limited social meter that just got shorter over the pandemic!)
Oh.. and maybe becoming more healthy.... maybe... can someone please gift me some motivation? :(
Anything you recently found interesting?
Escape Games: I know they've been around forever but they're reallllyyy so fun! I'm always down for an escape game.
More a shower thought but: The nicer the house/apartment/etc. the more people tend to stay at home and thus build less connections. In contrast if your house/apartment sucks you just always want to go out and then you meet more people! Such a weird aftereffect of prosperity??
mugeunji
Recently went to a very nice Vietnamese-owned boba shop called Mirakuru! They’re always changing up the interior decorations & their custom boba cup sleeves~ Plus, their sweetness levels feel actually accurate (not super sweet). Highly recommend :)
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itsjp
Hey girly! I'm not a fan of boba but I get the drinks without boba, lol. I'd love to grab a drink sometime together and go for a hike/walk if you're interested :-)
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SunflowerSoul
She / Her
Costa Mesa, CA
I keep a photo album of favorite trees I come across so I can imagine I’m sitting under them.
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Where are you at in your life stage?
34f. I'm at a stage where I'm constantly growing and evolving. As a single mom of two and someone passionate about my job in public service, I'm focused on becoming the best version of myself. I'm learning to balance work, motherhood, and personal development while taking my health and well-being more seriously.
How's your life?
Life is busy, but I'm handling it. Between work, managing the household, and being a mom, it can get overwhelming, but I'm dedicated to staying productive and finding ways to improve. I'm eating well, getting enough sleep, and focusing on my health. I’m also trying to make time for creative outlets, even though it can be tough with my schedule.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Yoga, nature walks, and exercise help me stay grounded. I also love diving into graphic novels or dark fiction. Taking care of my health and making more time for art has been my priority recently.
What is most important to you right now?
Right now, my kids, my job, and my personal growth are at the forefront. I'm committed to improving my health, being more productive, and finding positive environments where I can thrive and possibly make friends. Expanding my horizons and learning new things are also really important to me.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I’ve recently been really interested in exploring my area more and finding fun, free resources for creative outlets. I’ve lived here all my life, but there’s still so much I haven’t experienced, and I’m excited to try new things and get back into artistic hobbies.
Where are you at in your life stage?
34f. I'm at a stage where I'm constantly growing and evolving. As a single mom of two and someone passionate about my job in public service, I'm focused on becoming the best version of myself. I'm learning to balance work, motherhood, and personal development while taking my health and well-being more seriously.
How's your life?
Life is busy, but I'm handling it. Between work, managing the household, and being a mom, it can get overwhelming, but I'm dedicated to staying productive and finding ways to improve. I'm eating well, getting enough sleep, and focusing on my health. I’m also trying to make time for creative outlets, even though it can be tough with my schedule.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Yoga, nature walks, and exercise help me stay grounded. I also love diving into graphic novels or dark fiction. Taking care of my health and making more time for art has been my priority recently.
What is most important to you right now?
Right now, my kids, my job, and my personal growth are at the forefront. I'm committed to improving my health, being more productive, and finding positive environments where I can thrive and possibly make friends. Expanding my horizons and learning new things are also really important to me.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I’ve recently been really interested in exploring my area more and finding fun, free resources for creative outlets. I’ve lived here all my life, but there’s still so much I haven’t experienced, and I’m excited to try new things and get back into artistic hobbies.
BalancedLemongrass1
Wow you have a lot on your plate, keep up the amazing work you’re doing!
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BalancedLemongrass1
Isn’t it amazing? It’s such a lost art form these days. Words have the power to convey so much and offer a glimpse into someone’s deepest soul
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Kaebinn
He / Him
Santa Ana, CA
"Just a Pawn in The Game of Life" by a 5th grader shown at SCP. I love chess!
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I’m currently enjoying my 20s working at my dream job (video games!) and figuring out this whole adulting thing.
At a point where I want to start getting out of my comfort zone and experience new activities or hobbies.
Been an introvert most of my life and have a small but tight-knit circle of friends that I keep really close. Looking to try to break out and make new connections outside of work.
How's your life?
I graduated from college with an art degree and was able to realize the dream of every young gamer: work in gaming so you can play all day without anyone judging you!
I had my family’s validation and my dream job. I felt like I was soaring through life and nothing could stop me. Until a cough did. A cough which turned out to be cancer.
Treatment sucked, but after 10 months of battling I eventually achieved remission! The whole ordeal went by so quickly.
A small part of me still hasn't come to terms with the fact that I had this disease. I wanted things to return to normal and not change too much as a person, but ultimately, I did (especially the hair).
What helps you keep your sanity?
Food, friends, family, piano, and video games. Ironically, I thought that by working for a video game company I'd have all the time in the world to play games. But sadly, it's just like any other job! So many games, so little time.
Picked up a coffee habit during treatment. I was never a big coffee drinker, but I had a bunch of free time during treatment that let me visit coffee shops around SoCal. Always trying to find the next, popular cafe or space.
What is most important to you right now?
Maintaining and making new friends, advancing my career, learning new music, anything that keeps me positive and in a happy mood. The world's gotten a bit crazy lately, but life is too short to be constantly angry.
Anything you recently found interesting?
Recently I rediscovered a love for the music of J.S. Bach. I was forced into piano lessons growing up and resisted practicing (preferred video games) and classical music like most kids.
Currently relearning some old inventions, and preludes + fugues from WTC 2. In particular, the C Sharp Major Prelude BWV 872! I recommend the Glenn Gould interpretation for those who want to listen.
Where are you at in your life stage?
I’m currently enjoying my 20s working at my dream job (video games!) and figuring out this whole adulting thing.
At a point where I want to start getting out of my comfort zone and experience new activities or hobbies.
Been an introvert most of my life and have a small but tight-knit circle of friends that I keep really close. Looking to try to break out and make new connections outside of work.
How's your life?
I graduated from college with an art degree and was able to realize the dream of every young gamer: work in gaming so you can play all day without anyone judging you!
I had my family’s validation and my dream job. I felt like I was soaring through life and nothing could stop me. Until a cough did. A cough which turned out to be cancer.
Treatment sucked, but after 10 months of battling I eventually achieved remission! The whole ordeal went by so quickly.
A small part of me still hasn't come to terms with the fact that I had this disease. I wanted things to return to normal and not change too much as a person, but ultimately, I did (especially the hair).
What helps you keep your sanity?
Food, friends, family, piano, and video games. Ironically, I thought that by working for a video game company I'd have all the time in the world to play games. But sadly, it's just like any other job! So many games, so little time.
Picked up a coffee habit during treatment. I was never a big coffee drinker, but I had a bunch of free time during treatment that let me visit coffee shops around SoCal. Always trying to find the next, popular cafe or space.
What is most important to you right now?
Maintaining and making new friends, advancing my career, learning new music, anything that keeps me positive and in a happy mood. The world's gotten a bit crazy lately, but life is too short to be constantly angry.
Anything you recently found interesting?
Recently I rediscovered a love for the music of J.S. Bach. I was forced into piano lessons growing up and resisted practicing (preferred video games) and classical music like most kids.
Currently relearning some old inventions, and preludes + fugues from WTC 2. In particular, the C Sharp Major Prelude BWV 872! I recommend the Glenn Gould interpretation for those who want to listen.
BnWBird
God, cancer is no joke. I'm so sorry you went through that. But huge, huge congrats on making it through that experience. You are a WARRIOR.
I'm curious, what games are you into? Do you have a dream game that you wanna make?
I'm curious, what games are you into? Do you have a dream game that you wanna make?
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smarkyo
He / Him
Costa Mesa, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Almost 41 single male work in tech as a software developer working from home in Orange County CA.
Grew up in Los Angeles went to college at UC Davis so a bit familiar w/ Nor Cal.
Haven't had close friends in 10+ years (we drifted apart & stopped talking).
How's your life?
I am very socially isolated & depressed most days.
Weekends are really tough to get through because at least I have work to distract me during the work week.
I go out & have social activities to do but never really bond with people.
I know I need to put in a lot of effort to meet people but my social skills are subpar &
I haven't made close connections.
I try to be grateful for what I do have: food shelter stable job in a tough economy; but the loneliness is hard to deal with.
What helps you keep your sanity?
I play volleyball twice a week to get out & socialize with new people; but haven't made close friendships from it.
I'm trying to find other hobbies to get involved in but haven't found one I'm passionate about. Exploring learning how to play chess is my current goal.
What is most important to you right now?
Having friends I can hangout with really needing a support system because I struggle a lot with life issues. A lot of times I feel like me/my life just doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I have mental health issues I'm also dealing with under care of a professional; eg: depression
Where are you at in your life stage?
Almost 41 single male work in tech as a software developer working from home in Orange County CA.
Grew up in Los Angeles went to college at UC Davis so a bit familiar w/ Nor Cal.
Haven't had close friends in 10+ years (we drifted apart & stopped talking).
How's your life?
I am very socially isolated & depressed most days.
Weekends are really tough to get through because at least I have work to distract me during the work week.
I go out & have social activities to do but never really bond with people.
I know I need to put in a lot of effort to meet people but my social skills are subpar &
I haven't made close connections.
I try to be grateful for what I do have: food shelter stable job in a tough economy; but the loneliness is hard to deal with.
What helps you keep your sanity?
I play volleyball twice a week to get out & socialize with new people; but haven't made close friendships from it.
I'm trying to find other hobbies to get involved in but haven't found one I'm passionate about. Exploring learning how to play chess is my current goal.
What is most important to you right now?
Having friends I can hangout with really needing a support system because I struggle a lot with life issues. A lot of times I feel like me/my life just doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I have mental health issues I'm also dealing with under care of a professional; eg: depression
CheeseisGood
He / Him
Mission Viejo, CA
Bask in the morning sun and tell me what you feel
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Medium load capacity, colors, delicate care, warm- if my life settings were a washing machine
Like a washing machine, I feel like my life kinda runs in cycles. Currently on an upswing - new job, supportive family, happy to take on new challenges, hobbies, and skills
I'm 28, I've done some things and I've laid some roots, but I still feel young. Been thinking a lot lately about intentionally being a more positive force in the world. If everyone adds more positive energy than negative, I think we'll all be a bit happier.
How's your life?
Hey I can't complain. I have the best friends in the world - and I truly mean that. They're not the coolest people or the smartest or the sexiest or the most successful, but we'd go to hell and back for each other, and knowing that gives me joy every day. My mom is a one of one with unlimited love and support, and I just found a job that doesn't make me pull my hair out.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Trying new food in interesting places is my lifelong happy place. Other than that I play tennis, soccer, volleyball, ultimate frisbee, with an occasional hike thrown in. I write and reflect and listen to music in my alone time. When I'm with friends, we can always bust out a board game or a show - sometimes I think I'm overly sane by the amount of possibilities I enjoy.
What is most important to you right now?
People. People matter. Like Really. I love experiences, and in my 20's I've really gone away from physical possessions. But none of that really matters because with the right people, the walls suddenly seem thinner, the obstacles a little smaller. Mundane life pops with a little more color, and adventures become memories.
Anything you recently found interesting?
Taskmaster is the best thing on the internet. They upload every episode on YouTube outside the UK and its just a wholesome show of good people having a blast on TV, making each other laugh and I laugh along with them.
Where are you at in your life stage?
Medium load capacity, colors, delicate care, warm- if my life settings were a washing machine
Like a washing machine, I feel like my life kinda runs in cycles. Currently on an upswing - new job, supportive family, happy to take on new challenges, hobbies, and skills
I'm 28, I've done some things and I've laid some roots, but I still feel young. Been thinking a lot lately about intentionally being a more positive force in the world. If everyone adds more positive energy than negative, I think we'll all be a bit happier.
How's your life?
Hey I can't complain. I have the best friends in the world - and I truly mean that. They're not the coolest people or the smartest or the sexiest or the most successful, but we'd go to hell and back for each other, and knowing that gives me joy every day. My mom is a one of one with unlimited love and support, and I just found a job that doesn't make me pull my hair out.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Trying new food in interesting places is my lifelong happy place. Other than that I play tennis, soccer, volleyball, ultimate frisbee, with an occasional hike thrown in. I write and reflect and listen to music in my alone time. When I'm with friends, we can always bust out a board game or a show - sometimes I think I'm overly sane by the amount of possibilities I enjoy.
What is most important to you right now?
People. People matter. Like Really. I love experiences, and in my 20's I've really gone away from physical possessions. But none of that really matters because with the right people, the walls suddenly seem thinner, the obstacles a little smaller. Mundane life pops with a little more color, and adventures become memories.
Anything you recently found interesting?
Taskmaster is the best thing on the internet. They upload every episode on YouTube outside the UK and its just a wholesome show of good people having a blast on TV, making each other laugh and I laugh along with them.
MajorCowboyCat
Love the washing machine analogy! Super random but I agree with your username - what’s your favorite cheese?
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CheeseisGood
@MajorCowboyCat haha it's a tough question, mostly because I don't actually know enough about cheese. But I really like the Boursin garlic and herbs
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MountainSpirit
He / Him
Anaheim, CA
A beautiful, blooming tree, signaling the start of spring
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I'm 28 yikes! I don't have much to show for it since I'm in a transitional phase. I cooked in fine dining for 5 years, had a panic attack and dropped out of the industry entirely. I am really happy to report that I am on a good path now though. Just got my first certificate for a career in IT! Now to just get my foot in the door.. oh yeah I've been single for a while (2 years) so that's starting to sting a bit
How's your life?
It's moderate. I have good friends, but 2 of my dearest friends don't live anywhere near me (NY & SF). My social life has been so draining lately, I feel like I have to be somewhere every weekend.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Video games keep me sane. Playing Overwatch alone helps me forget all the social obligations I have to deal with later. I also love raving and will be on the dance floor grooving hard to any kind of music. Those few hours are when my brain shuts off and I become entranced by the loud music. I guess dancing is how I express myself, although I am not trained.
What is most important to you right now?
Taking care of my mother, she's widowed and recently handicapped. I help her with everything that needs physical work, though it is stressful that sometimes her needs take precedent over mine. Or... at least that's what I did to myself. Idk I'm still figuring it out and trying to balance her and my needs. Also my career, I am so eager to get in a new industry so I can start a new life.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I have been studying Buddhism on and off for about 2 years. I've been to a few mindfulness retreats in Canada. Also love home cooking and have gotten into smoking meats, baking breads, and making pizzas!
Where are you at in your life stage?
I'm 28 yikes! I don't have much to show for it since I'm in a transitional phase. I cooked in fine dining for 5 years, had a panic attack and dropped out of the industry entirely. I am really happy to report that I am on a good path now though. Just got my first certificate for a career in IT! Now to just get my foot in the door.. oh yeah I've been single for a while (2 years) so that's starting to sting a bit
How's your life?
It's moderate. I have good friends, but 2 of my dearest friends don't live anywhere near me (NY & SF). My social life has been so draining lately, I feel like I have to be somewhere every weekend.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Video games keep me sane. Playing Overwatch alone helps me forget all the social obligations I have to deal with later. I also love raving and will be on the dance floor grooving hard to any kind of music. Those few hours are when my brain shuts off and I become entranced by the loud music. I guess dancing is how I express myself, although I am not trained.
What is most important to you right now?
Taking care of my mother, she's widowed and recently handicapped. I help her with everything that needs physical work, though it is stressful that sometimes her needs take precedent over mine. Or... at least that's what I did to myself. Idk I'm still figuring it out and trying to balance her and my needs. Also my career, I am so eager to get in a new industry so I can start a new life.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I have been studying Buddhism on and off for about 2 years. I've been to a few mindfulness retreats in Canada. Also love home cooking and have gotten into smoking meats, baking breads, and making pizzas!
Ragdollcatdad
Mindfulness retreats in Canada? Small world i used to live in Canada before moving here.
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